The Neighbor's Tools

How do I ask a neighbor I never met if I could borrow their tools? I see him using it all the time (power saw and drill). I don't want to buy my own.

Holidays and Neighbors

My neighbors ask us to pick up their newspaper every when they go out of town (twice a month) - do I have to do their newspaper everyday or the day before they come back?

Good question - who still gets a newspaper delivered? For those neighbors that do, I recommend you pick it up every day. The neighborhood thief doesn't need to know they're away and a pile of newspapers could be a telling tale.

Borrowing your Neighbors Stuff

How to borrow your neighbors stuff (tools, car, books, cup of sugar, etc.)

A few simple rules of thumb,

1. Return it - if possible either ask when they need it back or suggest a time/date and ask if that's acceptable.

2. If you break it, replace it.

If you're thinking of borrowing something and it looks marginal to begin with, take a pass on borrowing it.

3. Always - Always return it in the same condition or better than you borrowed it.

4. Finally, say thank you :)

Simple guidelines to being good neighbors!

Greeting new neighbors

What's the best way to welcome new neighbors?

There are lots of ways to welcome new neighbors.

Here are a few reader suggestions,

1. Leave a small treat at their door (Champagne, flowers, card, etc.) with a welcoming neighbor note. Introduce your self and include your address.

2. A neighbor note in the mail box.

3. Bring over a baked pie. (Do people really do this anymore? - impressive)

I like the idea of leaving something at their door. When people are just getting settled in, it's easier to respond on their own time. No one likes getting caught off-guard. And, I'm sure new neighbors would like to make a good impression.

Nosey Neighbors

Ask:

Boundaries - Fences - Communication

When in doubt leave a note.

Neighbor advice

It's better to discuss problems with someone you know and respect. Introduce yourselves.